Rendezvous

We make A LOT of trips to Zion. I'm sure we've gone down this year more than 10 times.

Looking up in Pinecreek Canyon

It's just so beautiful.

This time we went for a "Canyoneering Rendezvous" that they have every year at Ponderosa Ranch, located just outside the national park. Canyoneers come from many different places to do canyons together and to talk about canyoneering. The best part for me was doing a canyon with other women.  When Matt told me about this event I thought for sure I'd be the only female, but that was not the case! Personally, for me, it was pretty fun to go with other women and see canyoneering from a women's perspective. These women took the time to explicitly explain things to me that helped me understand a little bit more of what I was doing and why I was doing it. They also showed me some pretty cool things they had made to help organize their gear.

Where was the baby?

With Matt.

We went down on Thursday night. I did a canyon on Friday day and Matt did a canyon on Friday night and Saturday. We also went down with a friend of ours Raul, who did every canyon we both did plus one on Sunday. Can you guess who got the better end of the deal? 

Raul

On Sunday Matt & I went looking for something we hadn't already seen. I love technology and smart phones! We just looked it up really quick on our phones and TA-DAH-- Petroglyphs!

Tomatillo's first petroglph! 

I have to show you this picture:

Yeah, that's Matt doing a 300 foot rappel. :)

 This canyon is called Englestead and the first rappel is 300 feet. After that the rappels are much, much shorter but no one wants to carry the additional rope. Matt asked if I could come so he wouldn't have to carry all that rope with him through the canyon. I was fine with that, really. It was "suppose" to be a pretty easy trail, but.... that's not really how it ended up for us.

I have a wrap where I keep Tomatillo in front of me and I was going to carry the extra rope in a back pack, behind me, so it wouldn't be that bad, but we parked our car in the wrong place so we had a horrible time finding the first rappel and we had to do a lot of bush whacking. Doing that with an infant is as horrible as it sounds. Lucky for me on my way back up I met an older gentlemen and his two grandsons who knew of a shorter trail and offered to give me a ride back to my car. 

I've made the offer before, but really if you would ever want to do a canyon tell Matt! 

He would L-O-V-E to take you!

Reassurance

I find that I am really concerned with milestones.You know the list of things they can do as they get older; make eye contact, coo, crawl, eat solid food, etc.  I think it's because I worry that my child may have some type of learning disability. (Not that he has done anything so far that has made me wonder!) I think it comes with the trait of being a teacher. I want him to be able to attend a regular public school and be able to focus and learn like the majority of kids in the classroom.

I talked to another teacher at my school and she told me she worries about the same thing. I didn't feel so alone when she said that. I do call the doctor a few times if my son has been awake for more than 2 hours. I worry when his poop isn't always the same color or texture. I think that 2 months appointments are too far away. Why do you have to wait every other month? I think I need to see the doctor once a month. I need the reassurance that my baby is "normal" and okay. :)

Apparently every baby is different. 

Anyways, last night our little Tomatillo rolled from tummy to back. An important milestone? I'm not really sure, but it's moments like these that reassure my worried heart. :)

It's too cute!

Blessing of Baby

 We blessed our baby boy! 

Blessing? If you're not too familiar what I mean by "blessing" our baby let me offer a quick explanation. Similar to other faiths (not just christians!). We take our child in front of the congregation and pray for traits and characteristics that could bless their lives.

I was actually pretty curious about why we do it and I did some reading on what other cultures do when their babies are born too. I thought it was interesting all the customs and traditions centered around a new spirit. :)

We invited our family and a few friends to come join us. We had a dinner first on Saturday and then on Sunday we blessed him. 

Aline made a lot of yummy food! 

My aunt Monique and Grandma

We had an ice cream sundae bar!

Aunt Kim was seen like this all night, holding the baby. :)
Who can blame her? He is darling!

It rained on our little back yard dinner. :( It was like a masoon! It was 

heavy and hard. Aline is wearing a garbage bag to protect her clothes from getting wet. 

I'm not really sure what Muriel is doing.

Both my Grandpas :)

Osi and Muriel (Again, what is Muriel doing?)

Grandma

                                                                 Grandma


                                                  Our little guy is pretty loved. :)

Muriel, Me, Tahia, and my mom

                                          Not everyone can have two beautiful sisters? ;)

"Normalcy"

So here's a quick post on Matt & I. We are regular "normal" people still, even though we do have a baby. So here is what we, regular people, have done.

Grill.

Regular people grill.

Matt got this beauty from his parents for his birthday. (THANK YOU!)
We have been talking about getting one and looking for a great deal, but finally his parents made the decision for us, by surprising Matt. They had the thing all boxed up, came over and said: "your present is in the car". They even wrapped it up for him! (I thought hiding it in the car was fine wrapping!)

So on Labor Day-- we grilled. Matt made veggies and I ate a hamburger. :)

Football.

  

Regular people like football. (This doesn't mean if you dont like football you are irregular.)

I made these velveteen cupcakes and cut out those Us out of sugar paper. (Not as easy as I thought it would be!) We have season tickets this year and went to the first home game of the season against Colorado. It was fun. :) It's funny when people found out we weren't taking our child they called our outing a "date". So here's my question... isn't only called a date when you dont have a child? Because pretty sure before we had a baby we went out all the time and I never thought those were dates. Were they? Or do you only begin dating once you have a baby because now you have someone to leave at home? Hmm.....

                                    

Canning.

Is this considered an activity that can label you as "normal"? 

Well it's harvesting time. 

I pickled beets! I pickled these over a month ago. I ate some yesterday and they were DELICIOUS!

 Saturday I made tomato sauce that I canned. This does look impressive.... but

Eh...not so much when you have the right Kitchen Aid attachment. All I did was cut the tomatoes in fourths and shove them through. It was SO EASY!

I made pickles! We purposely grew cucumbers for pickling.  I always wanted to make pickles! This was super easy too. I just bought some pickling mixture added vinegar and water and VIOLA. I think we even forgot that we were growing them until Matt stumbled upon them in our garden.

For me the thing about canning is I can't tell if it really worked until a couple of weeks later. I canned some beans and I left them on the counter so I could monitor how they were doing and although one of the jars were sealed tight it looks like I have some type of bacteria growing in the water. So I think that was a no go. So I have begun the monitoring phase. Let's see if it all turns out.

Another problem with canning is that I am so proud it's canned I don't want to open it. I have tomato sauce and today I almost bought some Ragu. I love the fact that my sauce is in a jar.... I dont want to open it!

Music.

Truth-- this was before the baby was born.

Truth-- I had to blog about this. I. Love. Josh. Ritter.

Remember when I didn't have a camera and I had to illustrate my summer experiences?  Well this summer I actually had a camera and I took REAL pictures of everything. :)

Red Butte Garden-- best venue ever

Snacks!

Friends!

Love!

As I finish up this post I have this song in my head "Lantern" by Ritter. Check it out. 

6 Weeks

4 Weeks Old

It seems like having a baby really takes up a lot of time.
I've thought a lot about blogging but it's really just been that--- thinking.

Here are a few quick notes and answers to commonly asked questions.

How is the baby? (I'm not sure if I want to disclose his name online--- probably but for now he will be referred to as Tomatillo.)

Tomatillo is great! He can sleep for 4-6 hours but that is when he is being held. If he is not being held he will sleep for 90 minutes and then awake and want to be fed.

He does the cutest stretching things when he wakes up. He extends his body and stretches his neck muscles. He also has this phase he goes through right before he "officially" wakes up. He'll make all these grunts and stretches for about 10 seconds and then he'll immediately stop and behave as if nothings happened. A few minutes later he'll do it again, stretch for about 10 seconds and then immediately resumes sleeping. He'll do this a few times and the last time he'll just scream if you haven't figured out that he wants you to pick him up. Do other babies do that? 

How do you like being a mom?
It's hard to define "mom". I feel like a "mom" is someone full of wisdom and experience who watches out for you. Yes I watch out for my son, but I dont think I've reached that wisdom and experience stage yet. I dont mind taking care of my child but the title of our relationship I am still unsure of what to call it.

I think I'll feel more confident of my role in a few years.

Personality?
Well actually no one has asked me this question but I am the one stupid enough to ask it to new mom's. No my child doesn't really have a personality. He likes to sleep & eat a lot. He does a lot of stretching and he likes to be cuddled. I don't think that makes him sound terribly unique.

I do have to admit, since I do have a baby I have become more self conscious on how people are judging me. I mean think about it. If you have more than one child you know what to expect from an infant. Me on the other hand---being a first time mom--- have no clue. I'm trying, I really am. However, I have this fear that while I am trying to calm my baby by rocking him and giving him a pacifier in public someone is looking at me and saying: "Dont you know that cry means..... you're doing it all wrong." I'm sure it's paranoia. If you see me doing something wrong, know that I am really trying. :)

I made him this little outfit! You can't tell but he's wearing the cutest shorts too!

He is smiling. (3 Weeks)

Family Reunion

Family Reunion! (August 5th)
We got together with my dad's side of the family and had a big lunch. My Grandma calls it a reunion but Matt calls it just lunch. Our baby boy was barely a week and we decided to take him out to meet the family. I also was itching to be free of the house and to be stopped being treated like I was sick.

Shauna and her family came to down from California

My Grand parents also celebrated 80 years of living! (They were born about 2 weeks apart)

My parents. I had to include this picture that look on my dad's face is priceless. :)

Not only adults but all kids want to touch this cutie..hence the reason I was there. No little hands that go up noses and drag through dirt and into mouths can touch him :)

He's Here!!

We're proud parents!

Now that he's here, it's hard to imagine living without him.

I know some of you are interested in knowing "the story". So here is how it all went down. 

Basically, I went into labor quick and fast at 4am, when my water broke. It was like a water balloon popped inside of me. Contractions hit going at about 3-4 minutes apart and by 6, they were 2 minutes. I was interested in giving birth naturally and wanted to do most of my laboring at home, meaning I didn't want to go to the hospital until I had to. 

However, when I previously made this decision I had not anticipated what sitting in a car would be like. AH! Lucky for me I chose to deliver at a hospital that was normally 5 minutes a way. I can only imagine what it would be like if I had chosen to have my baby at a hospital that was much farther than that. Oh my ignorance as I thought about other hospitals in the valley.

We made it to the hospital and I dragged myself into the check in desk. They did the routinal check up and discovered that Calvin was feet down ready to jump into the world. The only solution to this was a C-section. Apparently when they're feet first there is no hope. Matt wanted to know how long the whole thing would take.

Matt:"So how long do you think this will all take?" 

Doctor: "Until the baby is here?"

Matt: "Yeah"

Doctor: "Oh, less than an hour."

I was shocked at the time frame. Everything was moving by so quickly!

They shoved papers at us, mostly for the epidural. I was already familiar with the risks that were outlined in the paper work and the liability issues, but really? How can they thrust the paper work at you when you're contractions are less than 2 minutes a part. You may have only 30 seconds to think clearly!

They told me to lean forward to give me the shot. The whole time I was leaning I was trying so hard not to move. I've heard one too many horror stories of people being negatively affected by the epidural being directed in the wrong location and then they have back pain for the rest of their lives or they have problems breathing because the epidural went up instead of down.... in any case as he poked me I tried my very best to stay still and I tried not to ask him what level of experience he had. 

Well they wheeled me into the surgery room, gave Matt some cute fancy gear, and got to work. I swear in less than 10 minutes that baby was out at 7:50am. 

He was 4lbs and 12 ounces and 19 inches long. So skinny!! 

They were worried about him maintaining his body temperature so they took him into the NICU. They told Matt that had he weighed a few ounces less they would have just kept him in NICU until he gained some weight. He was only in NICU for less than 45 minutes. Once his temperature was stable they gave him back to us. 

Over the course of our stay they drew his blood and took his temperature and vitals several times making sure that he was remaining strong. He exceeded their expectations. He may be skinny but he's a fighter!

It's exciting!!